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Strength to make Choices- I AM PROACTIVE

     The title of this post has perplexed me for some time now. Never in a million years did I think it took strength to make choices. All I thought it took was wise council and risk analysis, but I am learning that while those two things are important when making choices the most important part of the choice making process is  having the strength to live with the choices you make. 
     I believe that everyone is put on this earth for a reason and that no matter what one does you will end up where you were always supposed to be. You where destined to be there and no one else. God writes amazing stories for our lives(hence the name of my blog). 
For many years I struggled with learning how to navigate this world as a triple minority. In high school I thought I found the answer, and that answer was be proactive not reactive. While I truly believe that is the answer to most problems, I now realize that at that point in my life I was to immature and inexperienced to truly and flawlessly implement that mindset. I was confused on the true meaning of proactivity.
     This brings me to a point that I just thought of. All of my life I have been reacting to other peoples theories  about my ability or aptness to overcome obstacles that I was certain to face. I achieved because I wanted to (don't get me wrong), but I also wanted to in order to show others that no matter what anyone thinks that they know nothing in this world is certain.  Everything can be learned. Practice makes perfect, and faith without work is dead. 
     My point is to say that for the past month or so I have been extremely reactive to different situations that have been going on in my life. Now it is time for me to make choices that are going to best position me for success, and I am praying for strength. The choices I make within the next couple of weeks will truly be life changing. God has finally freed me from the negativity of my past and given me peace. He has positioned me with an opportunity to grow in my aptness in order to achieve my dreams. 
     When one truly processes a proactive attitude, they can  
    increase their aptitude because they are no longer bound 
    to loose and with this new mood  they choose to be 
   successful and the blues are a thing of the past. -ME
World English Dictionary
aptitude  (ˈæptɪˌtjuːd) 
 
— n
1.inherent or acquired ability
2.ease in learning or understanding; intelligence
3.the condition or quality of being apt

                         Daily Positive Affirmation

1. I AM worthy of love, abundance, success, happiness and fulfillment.

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